Sunday, December 22, 2013

GOOD GRIEF...OR BAD?


I read a Facebook post recently from a parent of a child whose departing this earth to be with the Lord was high profile and covered in much prayer and emotion from a wide audience.  I am in awe of those parents whose child went home after a long battle because throughout the journey, they have been raw in their honesty yet true to their faith in the Lord.  That is why they can speak the bold things they do about the Lord in the midst of their own grief and are not destroyed by the tragedy.  These parents have shared with anyone who will read the status updates, the process of moving through their grief and sorrow over what I think has to be the most painful loss there exists…that of your child.  Father God knows that pain Himself as He sent His Son Jesus for the very purpose of rescuing His future children through the death of His beloved Child. 



In reading the mother’s post which was a “Happy Birthday” to their little girl, I felt moved to address grief in this post.  I think it is something so personal and mistreated.  I think there is much attempt on our parts to avoid it ourselves because it’s so painful.  We also exert much effort trying to get a bereaved individual to be encouraged and not in sorrow because it’s uncomfortable to be with someone going through that pain.  We are awkward because we really don’t know what to do or say.  In our smallness of mind, we well meaning ones try to “help” by saying some very foolish things, like, “God needed another angel so He took your baby.”  What fruit is produced by saying something like that?  First of all, angels are entirely different created spirit beings than humans and humans do not transform into angels upon death.  There is absolutely nothing scriptural about that statement.  Secondly, and probably most importantly, it can cause a heart to hate God for taking that precious person from our lives.  Sometimes the best thing to do with someone experiencing pain from grief is to be quiet, saying more through our holding them, or just being present, then expressing well meaning but foolish words.



I once heard a well known preacher/teacher tell of his own family’s loss of a dear one and he proceeded to address their tears with an exhortation and correction to not cry or grieve that loss.  To do so, he instructed, was to show lack of joy in the Lord and in His goodness to have taken their born again loved one to heaven and denies the fact that Jesus took our sorrow to the cross.  He continued that the knowledge of the loved one being a born again Christian should have produced nothing but rejoicing, knowing he was in heaven!  What this person didn’t understand, was that he was denying his family the right to grieve and move through it. 



If we don’t move through and eventually release grief in a healthy way, it will manifest in other ways:  unresolved anger, bitterness, loneliness, irritability, touchiness, depression, anxiety, or even as severe as suicide, at the thought of not being able to go on without that loved one.  What that man did in his instruction was forget that Jesus Himself grieved with weeping with Mary and Martha over the death of His friend, Lazarus, John 11:33-36; and over the loss of His dear Jerusalem who would not come to Him, Luke 19:41-44.  If Jesus Himself grieved, why would we think we should not go through the process ourselves?



Grief is as personal as each individual.  Different personalities, life experiences, equipping, knowledge, will create diverse ways of coping with grief.  There is a good way to move through it and a bad way.  I have experienced both. 



In the early 90’s I suffered the loss of my dad at a time in my life when I had endured loss of so many other things: my marriage, relationships, health, career, earthly possessions, reputation, freedom.  The marriage never was healthy and so was gone before it began as I married out of God’s will by marrying an unbeliever. The other elements of my life I lost were due to toxic exposure to chemicals in a new school building in which daily contact destroyed my immune system.  This created a “bubble girl” kind of effect in my life.  I became a social isolate and had to guard everything I ate, breathed or touched or I would experience debilitating symptoms which rendered me disabled.  Throughout that grueling experience, my one and only support was my father, with the exception of one compassionate friend who likewise was experiencing the same thing, just not to the degree that I was affected.  My dad was my “go to” because I did not have the relationship with God I do today.  My father was my “god”.  I idolized him as the one who was “all knowing and wise.”  He was an exceptional man, but I put him in a position he and no man deserves.  Instead of running to the throne I ran to the phone.  I didn’t understand to seek God first and let Him lead in who He would use to minister to me.  I just instinctively counted on my dad for everything.  In the midst of the battle for my own life, the call came that he too would now face a battle…one with cancer. 



How I wish I had known then what I now know about our weapons in Christ instead of accepting the traditional yet passive doctrine; “If it’s God’s will I’ll be healed.”  How I wish I’d known then that you can fight with weapons through Christ which are mighty for pulling down strongholds, how you have authority over your body and evil spirits which cause sickness and disease, how you can lay your hands in faith on the sick and they will recover, how you can change the very course of nature with your words, (2 Cor. 10:4, Luke 10:19, Eph. 6:10-18, 1:17-2:6; Mark 16:18, Romans 4:17, James 3:6; Prov. 18:21).  For lack of knowledge, My people perish, Hosea 4:6. (Sidebar:  As a contrast, years later, my mother was likewise stricken with incurable cancer; pancreatic, and given 3-4 months at most to live, but at that point I knew what to do in Christ and how to battle with His instruction and guidance.  She is alive today, years later, cancer free.)



I entered the fight with my father ill equipped and we lost the battle.  He passed before my very eyes.  From that moment on, I entertained and agreed with a spirit of grief.  Camping out in grief’s parking lot initiated a level of depression to the point I became even more immobile than I was prior to dad’s passing onto heaven.  I couldn’t seem to have any good memories of him; only the scene of death playing over and over in my mind as I would hit the rewind button and relive that morose scene.  I grew darker and darker on the inside.  Instead of finding a healthy way to pass through this valley of the shadow of death, I let it consume me.  As my health continued to decline, I suffered seizures in addition to all the other incapacitating symptoms.  I grieved Dad’s loss for a couple of years.  Every time anything brought a memory of him, I would cry for long periods of time.  I felt the loss so deep it literally felt like a knife cutting into me daily in the very depth of my being.  I felt so alone without his understanding ear or strong shoulders of which to lean.  Except for my will to be alive and functional for my beautiful children, I’m not sure how deep of a pit I would have sunk, but believe God gave me such treasure in them that I refused to give up completely. 



God, in His mercy, allowed me to slip into obscurity, to the point that I finally found myself in a place I knew I had to escape or I would perish.  The Lord was right there, illuminating my way and lifting me out of that dark pit.  I no longer wanted that mindset capturing my emotions and body.  I wanted out and He brought me to a wonderful refuge of safety and hope in Him.  I was finally free in spirit, soul and body.  My heart was no longer broken, my mind refused to think of things which brought me back to dark places, and my body began to manifest health again. 



In the process of deliverance, and over time, I was then able to allow Him to take me step by step through all the places of grief of which I suffered over the years since childhood.  Some of which I didn’t recognize as loss, was actually foundational for my understanding of why I seemed to grieve to an inordinate and harmful extent.  In equipping me with Himself, His Truth, His understanding, I began to walk in a new place of freedom from unhealthy grief of which I am eternally grateful.



With grief, we need to understand that it is normal to have sadness from loss, but if we are Christians, we have a Way for healing of our hearts, minds, and emotions from the loss.  Although we can grieve loss of anything, ie. job, friends, health, opportunities, house, relationships, family pet, etc., one of the most painful is the loss of a loved one.  If the loved one was a child or born again Christian, we can have the assurance we will see them again if we too are born again.  I gained a glimmer of understanding of this when I had to move away from my kids (which likewise includes my beloved son and daughter in law) and grandkids to relocate in a different state.  I felt so far away and cried as I unpacked the pictures of them from the boxes which held my belongings.  I didn’t think I would make it without having them close by.  I thought it unbearable to not be able to see each other when ever we wanted and to share the simple spontaneous things we so enjoyed together.  Then God, in His mercy, opened the way sooner than I expected to be able to move back to my children, and even placed us right in the same neighborhood as one child’s family and only ten minutes from the other!  This was far better than I had imagined and my heart is so full of how good our God is and how He tends to the details of our lives with such affection and care!  The homecoming has been full of peace and joy immeasurable.  I just had to be patient for His timing and ways which were far better than mine anyway. 



This move away and back again gave me a small picture of how our Homecoming will be when we all meet together in heaven with our loved ones who went before us.  When we say the cliché, “they are in a better place” we know that’s true but because we can’t relate, it doesn’t really help our own sorrow over the departure from us. We can, however, fix our thoughts on the knowledge that we will be with them again. We can rejoice in their Homecoming; they truly are in a place that is beyond our imagination.  We have never experienced something so magnificent , so we don’t have the capacity to understand how truly joyful it is to be there nor how glorious our elation will be to see them again, in perfection, with our beautiful Lord and His majesty. Some may not have the assurance that their loved one was born again.  I will tell you that we do have some loved ones who are born again, believing in the Lord to save them, but they did not show much evidence because they didn't spend time in the Word, letting it transform them.  For those who we don't know with all certainty they were born again, we have to commit that to the Lord and trust Him.  No one knows what transpired between that individual and the Lord just prior to their death.



In the meantime, we need to press into God, for He is the Healer of our wounded hearts.  He is no stranger to sorrow and grief and took that upon Himself.  No one understands better than Him what we are individually encountering and experiencing.  We can therfore accept His embrace as we go to Him to release our pain and ask and expect Him to heal us.  We can actually get to a place in Him whereby we still miss our loved one, but we don’t sorrow over the loss, knowing He is holding both them and us…forever.



As the holidays are upon us, if any of you are experiencing grief, which seems to occur more this time of year than any other season, I pray the Lover and Comforter of your soul, stirs and awakens you to a new level of comfort in Him.



As I finish this post, I am stricken with sadness over something that is trying to paint the holidays with melancholy because of the way this season currently has to be navigated by us.  I could feel my joy slipping and then heard the Lord tenderly whisper, “Can you just let that go and worship Me?”  As I surrender to the beauty of this moment of worship, I know that although He is always worthy of our worship, He is also doing this for my release from what is trying to occupy my heart and mind.  In His presence is fullness of joy.  I abandon all to You, my Love…



Wednesday, September 25, 2013

A Terrifying Journey: Our current Season






God led me to this amazing video of base jumping in wing suits today while spending time with Him.  I have been craving intimacy with Him yet I have been remiss in my busyness to take the precious time with Him I need.  This video expresses quite well the terror/excitement I am experiencing in this season as He has compelled Kurt and me to take flight as well, only in a spiritual sense instead of the natural.  As terrifying as it is to completely let go and fly in absolute trust of the Lord when He is compelling you to take a tremendous leap of faith, it is at the same time a thrill which few are willing to take.  We naturally want excitement, but not at the expense of giving up more of our comfort level than that of which we are “comfortable”!  We want to take off into realms unknown while standing squarely on the ground giving us sure footing, which is in fact, unattainable.

The details of what we are specifically dealing with in our move to Missouri basically seem to be creating an impossible situation which seems to be getting even more impossible, if impossible can become more impossible.  :)  For our protection in knowing we are going the right direction, however, God in His mercy, is closing all doors to which we could be tempted to either retreat or enter wrongfully.  Our true hearts’ desire is to be in the right place at the right time.  

Sometimes a strange thing happens once you abandon the known to walk in the supernatural; the unseen forces which operate in this earth begin to oppose you making things seem like you are now out of the will of God.  I’m so grateful that in my cluelessness, God knows exactly what He is doing and understands how much to allow things to heat up.  He knows how to work it all out for good.  I noticed in the video those aerobic thrill seekers looked like they were going to crash any moment into the edge of the rocky cliffs…but they never did, they just kept flying!  They were confidently defying the gravity that wants to keep us grounded.  They were obviously in full trust they were navigating the course correctly.  

This is where my husband and I are.  Even though adrenalin bursts as if in a fight or flight situation as risk factors increase, we know we are soaring in complete trust in our God.  He is big enough to correct our course if we are not hearing correctly.  The Lord once told me, “I cannot move a docked ship into the right direction.  You must move!  Even if in the wrong direction, I can steer you in the right one.  Don’t let fear of making a mistake paralyze you and cause you to miss My best for you.”

Last Friday, some very bad news came to us and we had all but given up, thinking that unless God brought something to open the way that day, we were finished with the course we were so desperately fighting to maintain.  Late that afternoon, we got a call that brought us a renewed sense of hope that we were to proceed.  In recognizing the multitude of fears we were facing, through tears which blurred my natural vision, I could clearly see the main fear I was facing.  I had to admit, I was afraid of looking foolish to others.  We have boldly proclaimed our faith journey before us to any ears among us!  We have confessed the outcome as we believe God has shown us…but what if we’re wrong?  What if this whole thing doesn’t turn out well for us after all?  Oh God…how I HATE the torture doubt brings…

God woke my husband and me up Sunday, in the wee hours of 3:00-4:00 am which seem to be the Lord’s favorite time to call me to attention!  I knew Kurt was lying there awake as well but neither one spoke.  We were each contemplating the move God has placed before us to which we said, “Yes, we will go,” but to which nothing has seemed to be simple or conventional to orchestrate.  Returning to my beloved family is easy on my soul and welcomed with open arms by us both, but the circumstances to do so have been nothing short of terrifying.  God has purposefully denied us having any sure footing in this move.  

That morning as I lay awake, the Lord began to speak to me with pictures forming in my mind of Peter and the other disciples from Matthew 14.  Jesus had just sent the multitudes away and HE PUT THE DISCIPLES IN THE BOAT; then He left!  A storm arose and they were starting to freak out.  They were in the middle of the sea…too far out to turn back.  It was somewhere between 3 and 6 am when they saw a figure moving on the surface of the water.  They thought it was apparition which was a superstitious sign and was particularly such to sailors as they believed that manifestation to be a sign of certain shipwreck.  Immediately Jesus spoke to them and told them to be of good cheer and not to be afraid!  We, like Peter, continually want the Lord to identify Himself and therefore, Peter’s answer to the Lord was that if this truly was the Lord, then he wanted to perform a supernatural event.  He specifically asked the WORD (Jesus) to COMMAND him to come and supernaturally walk with Him.  (In God's mercy, He “kissed” us with confirmation that we have heard His voice with that very message and scripture being taught on a podcast of a sermon we watched a few hours later.)

Asking to walk in the supernatural is exactly what Kurt’s heart has yearned for and of which he has been seeking the Lord.  I have asked that very thing for a couple of decades now and have experienced it many times.  As a couple, we have asked God to show us His supernatural side, no longer satisfied with the doctrines and traditions of men.  We too want to walk on the water with our focus on the Lord alone.  

The Lord reminded Kurt that if we indeed wish to see His supernatural works, we must be placed in situations where it takes a supernatural event to save us!  This supernatural positioning puts us so far out there, there is no turning back, there is no protection from “perishing” except from the Lord’s provision, and there are no resources we can use to find sure footing to hold us up other than the Word Himself.  It’s a place that will be challenged by everything around us as the very elements themselves seem to oppose what God has set into motion.  

Our focus determines our success to walk this walk.  As long as we focus on Jesus, we can do all things through Him, but if our focus turns instead to the storms around us, we will surely sink.  To help me in this, I use my creative imagination whenever I am afraid and “see” His face right in front of mine, as if in an embrace.  His loving eyes so near to mine block out whatever is going on around me and I feel the fear begin to fade.  The more fear attacking, the closer I picture Him to me as if it is His very breath I am inhaling.  I must admit this latest season has caused me to feel at times like we are sinking and that the events which have begun to unfold were a sign of shipwreck as we still continue to deal with the “storms” which persist to come against us.  However, He promised to never leave us so I KNOW He’s there whether He’s talking or choosing to be silent.  If I get weak and look to the storms instead of Him, I know as with Peter, He is with me.  He immediately saves me and I do not perish in that thing of which I am battling.  He stretches out His hands and catches me!  He is merciful and faithful even though I don’t deserve it.

Our “boat” of which God has placed us is that we are leaving all security behind and going to a place Kurt does not know.  We don’t have resources to uphold us.  It will be the Lord alone who will connect us to the right people and circumstances as we start over.  It will be the Lord who provides our housing and meets our every need. 

We were made to fly, not in the natural, but we have been given spiritual wings to fly once we accept Jesus as our Savior.  He placed that inherently in us which is why our hearts soar with dreams and excitement over the endless possibilities before us.  He wants us to leave the sure footing of our resources and wildly abandon ourselves in full trust of Him and FLY!  We must ascend in the trust that He knows what He’s doing.  His ways are higher than ours, which means sometimes our minds will be void of understanding although deep within the recesses of our inner most being, we will have a sense of sure footedness, being grounded in Him.

Chickens peck on the fenced-in ground being completely focused on what is right in front of them and what is readily available to them in their effort to supply their needs; while eagles soar on unseen winds with no boundaries to hold them in.  I truly believe God is awakening His Body to a new level of trust in Him to soar.  He wants to bless us with more of Him.  I am watching Him launch all of my family members and some friends and acquaintances into their own “boats” of higher levels of trust.  He has commissioned several I know besides us to commence on an “Abrahamic” journey…leaving all behind and going to a place they do not know…but they will know when they get there, Genesis 12:1-4.  

Blessings to you as you refuse to allow fear to have its way with you and you choose to walk on the water!

Thursday, August 29, 2013

People with a High Threshold for Pain...





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This word I believe I received from the Lord may not touch as big of an audience as my previous posts because it is very specific for certain individuals.  You will know if you relate or not.

During intercessory prayer on August 24, 2013, while in prophetic worship of the Lord, I heard the following:

Some people with a high threshold for pain will tolerate things or people who cause pain entirely too long.  It's an unsanctified form of mercy...patience to endure what I am saying, "Put this away.  Be done with this."

There are aspects of personalities/characteristics/habits which need to be offered to Me in surrender of sacrifice.  You will feel like you are giving something up, but you are actually gaining.  Seek Me for wisdom of how to do this.  Look for open doors of opportunity to give it up.  Speak forth what I give you to say, confident of this:  I will turn it around for good.  Go free and help others do likewise.  Stop enabling behaviors which actually keep others in bondage.  Go free from chains of darkness which have even held some for generations.  Go free My people, go free.

I got a sense that this word is speaking to those of us who put up with things which we feel is the "nice or right" thing to do when it actually is enabling people to continue in wrong behavior.  Sometimes we do this because we are intimidated, or we don't like confrontation, or we just want to "keep the peace" and just don't want to deal with it.  This is man pleasing and displeasing to God, because it just messes up the very things we think we are fixing or helping.  He is specific that it is better to please Him than man, Gal. 1:10.  He also does not want our motivation for action or lack thereof to be determined by fear. We will be gaining freedom and helping them to do likewise, if afterward they will choose to make good decisions and change their own behaviors or accept responsibility for themselves and their actions.

It's interesting that the word, "threshold" means: the point that must be exceeded to begin producing a given effect or result or to elicit a response; a point at which a stimulus is of sufficient intensity to begin to produce an effect; a line determining the limits of an area.  

Monday, August 5, 2013

SEASON OF OVERWHELM




We are currently in a season from the Lord of “overwhelm”.  We are “out there” so far in the deep that we only have two choices at this point:  sink or swim.  Just as the Spirit of the Lord led Jesus into the wilderness to be tempted of the devil, so we too are being tested to see where our hearts are strong and what we still need to surrender to the Lord.  Jesus, of course, passed every test, even though He was weak with hunger and tempted with things which directly impacted His heart.  As He passed each test He was taken to higher levels of temptation.  How did He pass these tests?  He slew His enemy and passed each level of testing with the Sword of the Spirit which is the Word of God.  (Matt. 4).


The Lord sets before us two choices:  life or death, blessing or curses, Deut. 30:19.  He will not overrule our freedom to choose, nor will He force His will, overriding ours.  We make thousands of decisions each day.  For those choices to impact our life correctly, we need to make the right ones, which God clearly says will bring us blessings and life.  To choose independently of the one who is Life and who brings blessings, would be foolish as it would bring curses and death, of which can come in many forms, not just physical death. This sounds so harsh except the reality of this spiritual law is this:  we have a Father who loves us more than we fathom, who is motivated by this indescribable love, and leads us to do those things which will open us up to the blessings He holds in His heart to bestow upon us. But it's still our choice to decide which one we will operate.  We truly don't get that there are only two choices; it's one or the other of which we are operating. 



So how does that amazing love equate to putting us into a season of overwhelm???  Being presented with the two choices stated above, we are now at a time we must choose which way we are going to go.  We must decide on purpose to either:  be overwhelmed with stress, worry, anxiety, fear, dread, rush-rush-hurry-hurry mentality; which all creates frustration and a negative attitude; or be overwhelmed with His goodness for our lives by letting go of all the fear-based things from the list above and press into getting to know Him and His nature of goodness for us.  How do we do that?  Just as Jesus overcame in the wilderness with the Word, we too will overcome this season of overwhelm with getting to know the Word, Jesus, (John 1:1). 



We tend to want to spend time with God and His Word, but we just are too busy to actually do it.  Once you decide you are going to take the plunge and take time from your busy schedule to make space for God and you, I can predict some things will probably occur with your effort to do this: 



1.  You will have to seek the Lord about what is the best time for you in your life circumstances to spend that time with God.

2.  You will be challenged to keep that time with God. 

3.  If you are able to keep it, you will have a hard time focusing or feeling like you are in His presence. 

4.  You will succeed in the above if you are determined that NO MATTER WHAT, you won’t give up but will keep pressing in. 

5.  As you keep pressing, you will begin to catch the wave of His Spirit, learning more of Him each day, learning how to flow with Him in His will for your life; where and how He leads you. 

6. As you flow with His Spirit, the Kingdom of God will manifest in your life which is:  righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Spirit, Romans 14:17. 

7.  As the fruit of the Kingdom manifests in your life, you will learn how to cast cares upon God along with all of the fear those burdens bring which try to overwhelm you.

8.  You will then be overwhelmed with His goodness of: peace, joy, open doors, closed doors, provision, miracles, divine connections, timing, wisdom, abundant life, and the pressures of this life will not succeed in stealing your joy and peace.  Even if the storms are enormous and you may have uneasiness because of them, you can still know deep in your gut that your Father has His hand on you.  You will know He is guiding you, helping you navigate the storms to come out on the other side with even more than you would have had, had the storms not occurred.  He works ALL things out TOGETHER for our good because we love Him and are called according to His purpose, (Rom. 8:28).




Looking at our peace lily this morning I realized that it finally bloomed after changing my watering habits.  Instead of just maybe once a week, I water a bit everyday now.  It hasn't bloomed in a very long time.  Now it has five blooms; 5=the number of grace!



God drove home His point with a dream I had last week which has been a reoccurring dream for years.  The specifics change but not the overall message each time I have these dreams.  Interpretation is in ( )’s.  I was in college, (higher learning opportunities in the Lord) and trying to find my dorm room, (the place or season where we are “living” right now.)  I found my room and it was large.  Usually the rooms in the previous dreams are small and cluttered.  (This room being large symbolizes more opportunity in this particular season.)  The room was entirely the color of red from the painted ceilings and walls to the carpeted floors and furniture.  The walls had murals of people who seemed happy but it still felt very overwhelming to be around so much red.  It made me feel completely over-stimulated and anxious and I knew I had to change that immediately to something more soothing and calm.  (Nuff said)  Immediately after that decision to obtain a peaceful living environment, I found myself with a man who I knew very well, intimately, who seemed like my husband yet also comrade, friend, etc., (Jesus.)  There was a dance contest that a group of us in the college were getting ready to go participate in and everyone needed time to practice.  My partner and I just started flowing in our dance routine.  I didn’t even need to know what He was going to do next, I could just follow him, (trusting the Lord and letting Him lead us step by step.)  At one point, however, I did attempt to lead which threw us off and out of step.  Discerning what happened, I immediately exclaimed, “Oh dear, I just tried to lead.”  I got right back in line with him as the lead, which caused us to glide and flow effortlessly together all over the dorm.  It was a fun and magnificent dance to which others watching were in awe.  (When we try to lead, it will throw things off in our life and we need to be quick to repent, calling out what we did and immediately turn away from it.  This puts us right back in line with His perfect will for us and our life will flow in peace and joy again.)  It was time for the contest and somehow I got separated from my partner.  This is also a recurrent part of dreams in the past whereby at this point I usually am panicking and not able to find him.  I feel stress, loss, and fear that I won’t find him and will miss out on what I am supposed to be doing/receiving.  However, this time I chose to react differently than all the times in the past.  I chose to believe that we would meet up on the stage as we both knew where to go.  I chose to decide that if something went differently than what I thought, then that was ok.  He now has me in a place where I trust Him and that all will go according to His plan since I am yielded to Him anyway.



If we look at our plans and what we actually get accomplished of those plans, we will feel a sense of loss and like we are always fighting time.  We will bear fruit of worry, anxiety, fear, dread, frustration and foreboding.  If we surrender our lives/day to the Lord and look at what He is ordering for our day and our steps, we will sense a feeling of gratitude for how He is using us and accomplishing His purposes for our lives.  We will bear fruit of peace and joy.  We will know which decision we made by the fruit we bear.  If we have cast the care, we will be able to say to the care, “I don’t care,” and to the circumstances, “Oh well…this is how God wants it or it would have turned out differently.”



Just today, I had much on my plate of VERY IMPORTANT things I HAD TO ACCOMPLISH by a certain deadline…when the Lord interrupted MY plans and told me to write this blog.  I must consider and choose to believe all our times are in His hands, all in due time, He is sovereign and goes before us ordering our steps, it’s ok for us to plan but the end result is in His hands.



After finishing this blog my husband informed me that he awoke from a dream this morning.  I didn’t tell him what this blog was about or even that I was writing it.  In his dream he was with a large group of people.  He found himself with all of them in a vast, dark basement that was open at the top as if the foundation had just been poured.  The walls were high, creating a deep foundation.  Everyone was following him and he felt fear that he led them to an empty hole.  The Lord spoke over him in his dream, “Just tell them to be at peace.” 



We can feel like we have dug ourselves into deep pits of problems, but God is saying in the midst of it all, let peace be your strong foundation of which He is building something wonderful!



Out of the mouth of two or three witness every fact is confirmed: Peace, be still and know that I am God, Psalm 46:10.



Sunday, June 9, 2013

STRIPPED

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One of the home improvement jobs I hate the most but which seems to generate the most dramatic difference is that of stripping off ugly, dirty, outdated wall paper and painting a fresh new coat of color to warm or brighten up a room.  It completely transforms an area, making it a desirable space in which to live.  All my stripping projects have been awful but some were beyond awful; just absolutely wretched!  One such job I became completely exasperated with was the entry way of our house.  I didn’t like what I saw and wanted people to have a positive first impression upon entering our home.  I had a vision for the finished product knowing it was going to require some hard work, effort and patience to obtain.  As I began the work, I instantly realized it was not going the way I thought it would and I began to question if I would be able to endure this project after all.  I wondered if I would ever get through the resistive process of those tiny pieces of stubborn paper barely surrendering to my touch and coaxing. In spite of pleading with that obstinate paper, it remained a painstaking process of removal.  I was just going to have to commit to see it through to the end no matter how long or how horrible the job, because once the project was begun, there was no turning back.  I somehow found the endurance to persevere and just keep chipping, scraping, pealing, groaning, sighing and complaining until the job was complete and revealed what was beneath all that effort; a blank canvas with which I could start over.  I now had the opportunity to clothe those bare walls with such a striking makeover that upon entering the front door people would remark with exclamation of the beautiful transformation which had occurred. 



When God is dealing with us in a similar manner of stripping us, scraping away at what must go so He can expose and transform a glorious work in us, it feels like we are in trouble; like we aren’t doing enough or the right thing to get rid of an unwanted circumstance; or we’ve somehow sinned and have not made enough restitution or repentance.  It causes us to fear we might give up, yet we fight to hold on.  We feel guilty because of the ongoing tug of war between faith in our good God and the doubt that tries to creep in and sabotage that faith.  We may feel very vulnerable, exposed, weak, uncertain, ashamed, awkward, and even withdrawn.  We may succumb to anger and lash out at the God who seems to have turned a deaf ear toward us.  It seems like He is no where in proximity of us or our circumstances. The heavens seem like brass as our cries for help or relief seem to go unanswered. This is the familiar nightmare playing itself out which so many of us have.  In this, which seems like the reoccurring dream so many of us have, we feel as if we are walking around naked when everyone else is dressed. This spiritual stripping can be completely frustrating, exasperating, and disenchanting. 



The first nakedness we see in the Bible is with Adam and Eve.  They were naked and there was nothing awkward or uncomfortable about it all, not because they were exhibitionists, but because they were clothed in the glory of God.  There was no knowledge of life any other way.  When one is fully clothed in the pure glory of God it causes there to be no fear or shame or anything else objectionable, Genesis 2:25.  This glorious state was so amazing that Adam and Eve walked in absolute peace.  They walked with God in perfect fellowship.  Their Father who created them, gave them the enjoyable task of being fruitful and multiplying, demonstrating that He had nothing but good success in His plan for His precious children’s lives.  Despite the fact they had perfect paradise on Earth, however, they chose to believe the lie of the slithery serpent, thereby opening themselves up to knowledge of things of which God wanted to spare them. Genesis 2:17-But you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat from it you will certainly die.  Hence, the state we are now all born; having dreadful things ingrained into the fabric our nature which causes separation from a most Holy God. 



Genesis 3:7 And the eyes of them both were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together, and made themselves aprons.



Out of fear and shame over their own choice to be stripped of the glory of God, Adam and his wife now had to find a way to cover themselves.  They soon found out as do we all that when we try to “cover” ourselves, our foolish attempts are insufficient because our work apart from God is useless and in vain,  John 15:5, Psalm 127:1.



Genesis 3:21-Unto Adam also and to his wife did the Lord God make coats of skins, and clothed them.



God, in the beauty of His love for us, finds a way to properly cover us.  However, a sacrifice must be made, so we see record of the first death in the Bible.   The death of animals was necessary, as their coats were needed to clothe man.  This is a picture of a far better sacrifice we would have in Jesus, whose body was given to save and cover us.



Since God is the source of Life and wants His family back, He has found a way to reverse the curse and recover our relationship with Him. This is a painful process, however, as it involves death.  First, it involved the death of Jesus so that through Him we could be saved through accepting His sacrifice in taking our place as we could never accomplish what He alone was able.  He therefore, becomes our all sufficient covering.  The second death is our own as we lay down our life in full surrender to Him as our Lord and permit Him to strip us of every hindrance that would impede His perfection working in our lives.  John 3:30-He must become greater and greater, and I must become less and less.



Just as Adam and Eve could not sufficiently clothe themselves for what they would encounter in a newly fallen world, neither can we of our own nature be equipped to handle what is necessary to be fruitful and multiply in this life.  Although He has clothed us with His righteousness in saving us from spiritual death and we will live forever with Him, there is still death that needs to occur.  This comes in the form of stripping…stripping us of what has to go from our human nature in order to advance in the nature He has placed inside of us upon our salvation.  There is no magic button to push when we get saved that automatically transforms us into a perfect Christian.  That’s why we still sin, although the new spirit within us doesn’t want to any longer.  The tug of war within ourselves begins as our soul and body which needs to be renewed and transformed wages constant conflict with our new spirit man.  The part which must die tries desperately to stay in control and alive yet well knowing it is being crucified and will eventually surrender to death, Romans 12:2, John 12:24.
 

Just as John 1 tells us, Jesus was the Word and was with God, and then became flesh, so does that same Word work in us.  It starts to mold us from the inside, then manifests in our flesh, becoming apparent on the outside that God is cultivating a new person in us.  It’s no wonder then that our fleshly ways must be revealed; stripped of what is keeping them veiled and holding us back from God’s purposes and wonderful plans for our lives.  This is a divine process which if we will surrender as a holy sacrifice to the Lord whatever  He chooses to reveal, and ask Him to crucify or strip it away, it will wield a magnificent transformation in us whereby we will then more reflect the nature of the Lord.



God in His wisdom knows that we will attempt to clothe ourselves in our own ability, education, doctrines, pride, careers, past life experiences, etc.; hence the need for the day to come when we will be stripped of what we have come to rely on consciously or subconsciously.  Although it feels absolutely terrible to our exposed “flesh”, in the genius of a good and loving God, it is actually a mark upon His sons and daughters of excellence.



When we are going through this refining, stripping process, we are actually in good company, being in the ranks of others who possessed excellent spirits and were stripped: Joseph, Joshua and Caleb, Moses, Paul, David, Daniel to name just a few. If we will yield to the process of being stripped, the outcome will far outweigh the pain, suffering or eradication of what we gave up.  Paul said, “Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ,” Philippians 3:8.   


Joseph was stripped of his beautiful coat of favor his father gave him, Gen 37:23.  He was plunged into a pit of bondage, forsaken by his family yet it was all a proving ground; proving God was with him and causing others to finally be able to receive what God wanted to pour out through His refined vessel, Joseph. 



Joshua and Caleb had to wander around in the desert for forty years with a bunch of gripey, ungrateful idolaters who because of their continual bad choices and refusal to trust in God, they did not get to enter the promises God had awaiting them.  However, Joshua and Caleb riveted their focus on their amazing God, refusing to gaze on the problems.  God therefore caused them to possess an excellent spirit through the trials of the wilderness so they were prepared and therefore able to enter into the Promised Land.



Others mentioned above had their education, lifestyles, positions, provisions, security, capabilities, families, homes, etc. stripped from them in order that they could eventually be built back up by the Lord with nothing but success awaiting them.  They were able to fulfill the calls on their lives and rejoice in God taking the time to turn their circumstances around for their good, re-clothing them in His finest apparel. 



I would be remiss to not mention our Lord Jesus, who allowed Himself to be stripped of His omniscience, omnipotence, and omnipresence in order that He could be contained in an Earthly body instead of His spiritual one.  For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that you through his poverty might become rich,  2 Corinthians 8:9.



We need to resist the temptation to be the child in the backseat asking, “Are we there yet?”  It’s going to feel longer than we want because we are impatient by nature and as God told me a few Sundays ago during worship at church, “It takes time for Me to produce fine wine.”  When we ask how much longer we are going to have to endure this; we intuitively already know the answer, “As long as it takes.” This may not seem like an answer at all in the midst of our torment, but if we will do our best to surrender to God, letting Him have His way in this stripping, trying to maintain a grateful attitude in understanding that it will be for our good and Kingdom purpose, it will help us endure.  We can be honest with the Lord, going to Him about our discomfort, frustration, even anger because He is touched with the feelings of what it’s like to be human, Hebrews 4:15.  We can ask Him for His help and grace to endure what we must and that although we don’t like this stripping wilderness process, we trust Him.  In this, we will have a different attitude than the children of Israel who complained, and turned their backs on the Lord in their distrust of Him.  In our endurance, we will reap a harvest, thereby returning to the garden of Paradise unashamed, at peace, fruitful and in perfect fellowship with our Father.



Just as Adam and Eve were to multiply, we are to conceive by the Lord and give birth to what He is causing to emerge in and through us.  When a woman is near the end of her pregnancy and the doctor feels she has been pregnant long enough they may perform a procedure called “stripping the membranes”.  This is a process to separate the amniotic sac which holds and protects the baby, from the wall of the uterus which was the place of growth and nurturing.  It is to hopefully start labor to bring forth the baby.  In an article by Journal of Midwifery & Women's Health 2009;54(3):259-260, Posted on Medscape Today News this revealing statement is made:



“Sometimes, at the end of pregnancy, it seems the pregnancy will never end -- we can all become impatient and wish we could make labor begin; membrane stripping may cause you to lose sleep and be uncomfortable in the days before your labor starts -- the best way to get ready for your infant and for labor is to remain as rested as possible.”



There will come a time which He knows best to begin the process of stripping.  This is a mark of maturity in that you are now ready to come forth and no longer need to be hidden away and protected as an unborn baby.  He wants you to make your appearance in the world and launch the call for why He placed you here. This process can happen several times in our lives, however, as He continues to stretch and increase us.  In His love and mercy, He will clothe us with far better than what He had to strip off, giving birth to a new us which now looks more like Him with each step of the process



The stripping/refining process seems to expose, yet He clothes.  In the stripping process we trade our shoddy wardrobe for what is in His holy closet:



Strength and dignity-Proverbs 31:25

Love-Colossians 3:14

Salvation and Righteousness-Isaiah 61:10

Praise-Isaiah 61:3

Compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience-Colossians 3:12

Christ-Galatians 3:27-No better garment!



1 Peter 5:10 But the God of all grace, who has called us to his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that you have suffered a while, make you perfect, establish, strengthen, settle you.



Ezekial 16:8 When I passed by you again and looked upon you, indeed your time was the time of love; so I spread My wing over you and covered your nakedness.  Yes, I swore an oath to you and entered into a covenant with you, and you became Mine,” says the Lord God.